[WorkInProgress] (4/18/2008)
Addresses some of the difficulties met in the relationships of high achievers.
[WorkInProgress] (3/16/2008)
On relationships - a different way of looking at the positives and negatives of a relationship before deciding that it is beyond saving.
[WorkInProgress] (12/27/2007)
Keeping our eyes on the ball in the game of life - and avoiding the distractions.
[WorkInProgress] (10/30/2007)
On recapitulating to get the most out of meetings and trainings.
On discovering where an emailed link will take you BEFORE you click.
WorkInProgress - Top 10 Steps to Obtaining Forgiveness (9/18/2007)
Following last month's Top 10 Steps to Forgiveness, this month looks at Top 10 Steps to Obtaining Forgiveness.
[WorkInProgress] (8/29/2007)
The Top 10 Steps to Forgiveness
[WorkInProgress] (5/30/2007)
Prioritizing is not the only way to deal with frustration around time management.
[WorkInProgress] (3/31/2007)
Whether you believe that The Secret is fabulous or a false fable, the process of envisaging and attaining our goals has power.
[WorkInProgress] (1/12/2007)
What just one person can do - the story of Salva Dut
[WorkInProgress] (12/3/2006)
On family feuds, former friends, and reconciliation.
[WorkInProgress] (10/5/2006)
Ways to break out of a downward spiral
[WorkInProgress] (7/28/2006)
Expectations in relationships, how to deal with having them when they may be damaging to the relationship.
[WorkInProgress] (6/16/2006)
Discusses difficult situations and issues of leaving or staying.
[WorkInProgress] (5/27/2006)
A rotating system for bills and other reminders;
Personal Privacy I - Your Phone Number carries Clues; II Mealtime Conversations
[WorkInProgress] (5/17/2006)
[WorkInProgress] (4/26/2006)
We short-change others when we pigeon-hole them according to what they used to be, or based on general attributes. "Pigeon to Butterfly day" would be a time for freeing those around us from the pigeon-holes in which we tend to keep them.
[WorkInProgress] (3/19/2006)
Thew time of the spring equinox is the time of new life, new choices!
WorkInProgress - Relationships: Danger signal (2/5/2006)
This short synopsis of the content of each edition will help visitors to your web site archive decide which of the archived editions are of most interest to them.
[WorkInProgress - my apologies!] (2/3/2006)
Apologies for formatting problems
[WorkInProgress] (10/31/2005)
Looking for insight from family patterns.
[WorkInProgress] (10/1/2005)
Finding a balance between the need for connection and relatedness, and the need for autonomy.
[WorkInProgress] (8/12/2005)
Thoughts for those in the process of ending a relationship. Some days to celebrate siblings and partners.
[WorkInProgress] (7/11/2005)
Deciding what we get back from the organizations and activities into which we put time and effort.
WorkInProgress: Relationships - keeping them in balance (6/18/2005)
When a relationship becomes unbalanced, when one person becomes overburdened and resentful...
WorkInProgress - Finishing the ladder that leads to your vision (5/22/2005)
Completes the three-step process of designing a "ladder" portraying your climb toward the vision of the life you desire for your future.
WorkInProgress - Beginning your ladder (4/18/2005)
Step One of a two-step process of creating the ladder that you will climb to your vision of your future.
[WorkInProgress - Project you! Updating your vision (4/4/2005)
Your life as a project. Part I.
WorkInProgress - Using a daily review (2/24/2005)
The daily review - backward and forward. Plus introducing the ChoiceCoach blog - Choice, Change & Charybdis.
[WorkInProgress] (2/5/2005)
Danger signal - "If you loved me you'd..." and how to cope.
WorkInProgress - The importance of a second (2/1/2005)
Every second counts, in many ways.
Finding common ground and... (12/24/2004)
Finding things in common - a warning; To limp or not to limp; Life in Harmony.
WorkInProgress: What do you really need? (10/7/2004)
Discusses needs and how to get them fulfilled, and keep them fulfilled, without appearing "needy."
WorkInProgress: Accepting and preparing (9/5/2004)
... on accepting difficult situations without lashing out, and on preparing for them before they happen.
WorkInProgress: It's all a matter of perspective (8/4/2004)
On dealing with opposing points of view.
WorkInProgress: We all hurting sometime somehow... (7/7/2004)
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WorkInProgress: Dealing with our Roadblocks (4/25/2004)
Dealing with our roadblocks
WorkInProgress: And your next action is...? (3/5/2004)
Finding the next step to take on your project.
WorkInProgress: Resolutions? Solopreneurship. (1/22/2004)
WorkInProgress: Driven or Driving? (12/28/2003)
Keeping our lives and schedules in perspective.
WorkInProgress: Gems from Denver ICF Conference (12/15/2003)
Gems from the ICF conference - on excellence, relationships, Dr. Paul Pearsall, and more.
WorkInProgress: Staying Enthused! (10/20/2003)
How to keep enthusiasm and momentum going when a project is past its initial start-up excitement.
WorkInProgress: A Plea for Tolerance (9/11/2003)
~~ Two years ago - a please for taking the high road.
~~ Turn off the e-mail ding.
WorkInProgress: Take stock - Time and your many activities (8/18/2003)
WorkInProgress: Family roles, family trap? (8/6/2003)
Discusses family roles and how in later life their continuation can trap people into not being who they really want to be.
WorkInProgress: Communication - Getting ahead of oneself (7/15/2003)
WorkInProgress: Expectations can backfire (7/1/2003)
WorkInProgress: Inescapable situations (6/16/2003)
WorkInProgress: Enhance your Creativity (6/2/2003)
Top Ten Ways to enhance your Creativity
WorkInProgress - Sharing & Negotiating - In the family & beyond (5/6/2003)
WorkInProgress - What will you risk (4/25/2003)
[WorkInProgress - Fear of Firing - A problem of ethics (4/4/2003)
WorkInProgress - What once you loved to do (3/19/2003)
WorkInProgress - A safe space for the truth (3/1/2003)
WorkInProgress - About relationships (2/15/2003)
WorkInProgress - It is our nature to explore (2/2/2003)
WorkInProgress - Goals and Objectives (1/15/2003)
WorkInProgress Radical internal change takes time (1/1/2003)
Foiled by a dominant response? (12/15/2002)
Work In Progress - clarification (12/2/2002)
To Be More Effective! (12/1/2002)
Self-limiting thoughts, overly-entitled thoughts (11/15/2002)
Fear of Choice (11/1/2002)
Dealing with Hidden Clutter (10/18/2002)
Success through Specificity (10/1/2002)
Communication - The Relationship Fix (9/15/2002)
It's the Experience! (8/15/2002)
Tough Times... and Bill Porter (7/15/2002)
Journaling - Sometimes a down side (6/16/2002)
Matching - or not - your environment (6/1/2002)
Wanting to change, yet unchanging (5/15/2002)
Dealing with change (5/1/2002)
Dealing with Stress (4/15/2002)
Open mind and insert careful thought (4/2/2002)
On perspectives and conflicts (3/15/2002)
To thine own self.. and mission... be true (3/3/2002)
Feel so good/One bad apple (2/15/2002)
Retirement - You're never too young! (2/1/2002)
Handling the end of a relationship/Martha Matilda Harper (1/15/2002)
Fearful anticipation/Marketing Comes Second (1/1/2002)
A Matter of Chance/Power of Personal Contact (12/15/2001)
Squelched ideas (12/1/2001)
Finding a strategy that works for you (11/15/2001)
What can we do?/Things have changed (11/2/2001)
Breaking the chain (10/15/2001)
Extracting ourselves from overwhelm (10/1/2001)
Some thoughts on the tragedies (9/15/2001)
Live long and...? (9/1/2001)
Success & Personal Development - the connection (8/15/2001)
Imagining your Image (8/1/2001)
Breaking the 'but first' chain (7/15/2001)
You can't please everyone (7/1/2001)
Abundance and running water (6/15/2001)
What comes off the top is not always the richest cream (6/1/2001)
Don't second-guess the past (5/15/2001)
Goals or No Goals (5/2/2001)
Organize your files week! (4/16/2001)
Flexibility & Authenticity Revisited (4/1/2001)
Where are you & where are you going? (3/16/2001)
Creativity - yes you do have it! (3/1/2001)
Feet of Clay (2/15/2001)
Coaching Awareness (2/1/2001)
Bring back the Grand Tour/Time Management (1/15/2001)
Beyond New Year's Resolutions/Lemons & Lemonade (1/1/01)
The Negative Judge (12/19/00)
Stepping stones beneath you (12/1/00)
A remarkable woman (11/15/00)
Ways that people invade boundaries/Being comfortably alone (11/1/00)
Making your own luck (10/15/00)
Lessons from Life - the Crow & the Owl (10/1/00)
[Financial Education/Making Peace with Uncertainty (9/15/00)
To celebrate diversity... (9/1/00)
Memos in a hurry - Ooops! (8/15/00)
Depicting your Vision/Non-judgment Day (8/1/00)
The Magic of Visualization/Uncluttering (7/15/00)
The Stealth Approach to Change (7/1/00)
The Buck Starts Here/Revenge is not sweet (6/15/00)
Focus & Balance, no competition/Finishing the task (6/1/00)
Globalization, widening our horizons/Difficult conversations (5/15/00)
Being Aware/Linking routine & enjoyed tasks (5/1/00)
What would.../Why do you give?/Horizontal surfaces (4/15/00)
Gaining Perspective/Boundaries (4/1/00)
Use of time/Old Memories/Deciding is not doing (3/16/00)
Movin' on/Learning from feelings (3/1/00)
Language of communication/Emotional independence (2/15/00)
Silver linings/Getting off the couch (2/1/00)
What's next?/College..Sooner, or later? (1/15/00)
What is time?/Interruptions/What millenium? (1/1/2000)
Special full moon/Special time of year (12/15/99)
Overwhelmed at work/Places to turn life around (12/1/99)
Overcoming procrastination/Perfectionism (11/15/99)
Know what you want to leave/Time Manage/Surviving heart attack when alone (11/1/99)
Finding your forgotten dreams (10/15/99)
How to cook a frog/Giving away our power (10/1/99)
Accepting the problem so as to solve it (9/15/99)
Overcoming blocks to our progress (9/1/99)
Appreciating what you have/FAS Day (8/15/99)
Creating your team/The Aladdin Factor (8/1/99)
Problems & Solutions (7/15/99)
Half-year check-up/Structure vs Freedom (7/1/99)
Self-Induced Stress/Free tape (6/15/99)
Knowing who we are/Client success (6/1/99)
How Dreams become Goals (5/15/99)
Is it frugal?/Youthful intolerance (5/1/99)
Quality time at work & home/Containerizing (4/15/99)
Present perfect (4/1/99)
Control, and pushing back (3/21/99)
Creativity in the Workplace (3/1/99)
Either-or... or both?/Personal History (2/15/99)
Legend of Village & MOuntain (2/1/99)
Conflict free zones/Until then (1/15/99)
Goals take time/Card game context (1/1/99)
Giving & Receiving/Card trick (12/15/98)
Self Sabotage versus Achievement (12/1/98)
Mental toughness/Relationships & Money (11/15/98)
Moving on/A simple Christmas (11/1/98)
Friendship (10/15/98)
Self Explanation/Personal Rhythms (10/1/98)
Unstoppable (Book Review)/Tracking Cash (9/15/98)
Boundaries & Manners (9/1/98)
Relationships (8/15/98)
The Extra Mile/Self-Nurturance (8/1/98)
Use what you know/Wear your roles lightly (7/15/98)
Respect (7/1/98)
Choosing new behaviors; Thinking ahead (6/15/98)
Reserves; Gratitude Journal (6/1/98)
Our Hidden Gifts; Feng Shui (5/15/98)
Life as Journey; The Present is Perfect (5/1/98)
Selfishness and Codependency (4/15/98)
Inner Success; Spontaneity (4/1/98)
Accepting reality (Sufi story); Judgements (3/15/98)
Escaping: Family Roles; Vicious Cycles (3/1/98)
Self-Care; Persistence; To-do Lists (2/15/98)
Flexibility vs Authenticity (2/1/98)
Independence vs Connectedness (1/15/98)
New Years wishes; Forgiveness (1/1/1998)
Winter Holidays: origins, pressures, poem (12/15/1997)
Same thing, differing perceptions (12/1/1997)
Balance, Pressures, Spiritual Journey (11/15/1997)